Compatibility or
Synergy and Astrology:
When two people
meet, their chances for a compatible relationship depend on how their basic
needs and personality traits will mesh in the give and take of social or
business interactions.
These can be determined
by comparing a companion's horoscope with your own natal chart. In doing a
comparison, first notice whether your companion has a predominance of planets
in one of the elements, more than four planets in one element. A predominance
of planets in one element tells
you something about what that person brings to the relationship, for example:
A person with a
predominance of Earth signs introduces a stabilizing influence on the
relationship.
A person with a
predominance of Air signs puts the relationship on an intellectual level.
A person with a
predominance of Water signs will flood the relationship with deep emotional
actions and reactions.
In general, people
are more likely to be compatible with each other when their natal planets fall
into compatible elements. The compatible elements are fire with air, earth with
water. That means if you have a predominance of natal planets in the fire
signs, you are more likely to have a compatible relationship with someone who
has a predominance of natal planets in the
air signs. If your companion's planets are mostly in the earth signs,
you can expect assorted difficulties depending on which elements are involved.
It is also
important to note how many of your planets are in the Cardinal, Fixed, and
Mutable signs; and where your companion's planets are. A predominance of
planets in one quality (i.e., five or more planets in a cardinal, fixed, or
mutable sign) tells you how someone is likely to act in a relationship. For example:
A person with a
predominance of Cardinal signs is anxious to see things get started.
A person with a
predominance of Fixed signs is more likely to be stubborn and unyielding in a
relationship.
A person with a
predominance of Mutable signs will be adaptable and willing to make most of the
compromises.
Now it is important
to note to see how your and your companion's planets are distributed among the
masculine and feminine signs. Most people have an even balance of five-to-five,
or six-to-four, between masculine or feminine. If you and your companion each
have the normal ratios of planets, you should have no trouble getting along
with each other. You can work things out even when one of you has a gender
ration of seven-to-three while the other has a four-to-six ratio.
If there is a
difference of one or two planets in masculine (or feminine) signs between you
and your companion you should have no trouble in establishing a compatible
relationship. If there is a difference of three planets, you can still work
things out. However, if there are more
than three planets between you and your companion, in one gender, you
will both have to work very hard to
maintain a relationship. The reason is that the dominantly masculine person's
aggressive behavior will threaten and harass the reserved, security-motivated
feminine person.
If both people are
dominated by the same gender (either masculine or feminine), they share the
same viewpoint and approach to life. Initially, this can give them a strong
feeling of compatibility.
However, they will soon feel a need for the kind of stimulation that comes
from defending mildly different
points of view. They will have to turn to someone else to meet that need.
Someone with eight
or more planets in a single gender may find it difficult to find a comfortable relationship.
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